Give people the benifit of doubt!

“There are people we wonder about but don't make attempts to contact. Perhaps we're afraid of empty conversations with someone or perhaps we're curious about someone whose life we watched for awhile from afar.

Sometimes it's just been too long and sometimes we can't even articulate the need to know whatever happened to them. Where are they? Did they make it? Are they happy? Are they passionate about something in their lives? Are they anything like the people we once knew?

Sometimes, we sit and wonder what could be or what would have been, without necessarily doing anything to bring about what should be. The real question i need you to ask yourself is...ARE YOU LIVING OR MERELY EXISTING.

How many lives have you touched lately either by way of a simple apology, a simple Thank you, a simple I believe in you. When last did you pick up your phone to check on someone who once mattered or someone whom you don't even consider relevant anymore. Even when the skies are grey or blue, will the touch of your hands, the words of your lips or the smile on you face speak for you? Are you only concerned about you or will you reach out o other too.

Don't always be in a hurry to put others in your bad books just because they weren't there when you needed them,(has it ever occurred to you that perhaps), they may also have needed you to be there for them as well.Learn to give people the benefit of doubt, even though doubt has no benefit.*SMILES*
by Egbe Helen{facebook}